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To Judge or not to Judge: Which is God’s commandment?

How do we reconcile the apparent “opposition” of Jesus’ words of not judging others until the plank is out of our eye (Matthew 7:1-5 or so) and “making a righteous judgment”
(John 7:24)?

Put another way, how can we make a “righteous” judgment when Jesus COMMANDS us not to judge?

Jesus COMMANDS us:

“Matthew 7:1 “Do not judge, or you too will be judged. 2 For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.”

We must first turn to the dictionary, to make sure that we have the right definition. I don’t think there is any doubt that what Jesus is talking about here are these two definitions: “to form an estimate or evaluation of; especially : to form a negative opinion about” or “to determine or pronounce after inquiry and deliberation.”

Spelled out, Jesus COMMAND is this:

Do not form an estimation or evaluation negatively of another, or you too will receive a negative estimation or evaluation about you.

Or

Do not determine or pronounce a decision about someone after inquiry and deliberation or you too will receive a determination and pronouncement about you.”

I don’t know about you, but that’s some heavy stuff right there that smacks me right in the face. This is because this is God Almighty essentially giving us the ultimate dare: You judge negatively about someone else, and I – God Almighty – am going to judge YOU negatively.

OUCH.

There is no “UNLESS” in this (i.e., an exception), although we certainly try hard to make one.

Continues Jesus:

“5 You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.”

So, hey… if we first take the planks out of our eye and become the apple of Jesus’ eye, it’s all good, right? At this point, Jesus would tell us to have at it! Judge to our hearts content. Right?

Can someone say: “Jesus did not come for me because He said He came for the sick and not the righteous (Luke 5:32, Mark 2:17)! Certainly, Jesus did not come for me, the righteous one! Right?”

Wrong.

3 “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?”

Jesus is clear that nobody is plank-free. Jesus explicitly refers to all here. Why do we look at sawdust through the planks in our eyes? He does not say: “to those of you.” Or “to many of you.” This is a question to ALL OF US because we are ALL guilty.

Here is how I have been exempting Jesus’ command:

John 7:24 Stop judging by mere appearances, but instead judge correctly.

I’m a dummy.

I’ve been saying: See?! Jesus tells me I can judge correctly, right?

Really?

Paul, referencing Psalm 14, said this:

Romans 3:9 What shall we conclude then? Do we have any advantage? Not at all! For we have already made the charge that Jews and Gentiles alike are all under the power of sin. 10 As it is written: ‘There is no one righteous, not even one; 11 there is no one who understands; there is no one who seeks God. 12 All have turned away, they have together become worthless; there is no one who does good, not even one.’

Who was Jesus directing John 7:24 to? The unrighteous Pharisees! It wasn’t a COMMAND from Jesus, it was obviously a statement of complete exasperation.

Jesus made this comment right at the time that the Pharisees were judging Him under the 4th commandment, the observance of the Sabbath, after He healed someone on the Sabbath.

Did He have expectation that the Pharisees WOULD make a “right judgment?”

I don’t think so.

But, He made the message clear. When He was being attacked for not following the law, as perceived and interpreted by men, the men who were perceiving and interpreting the law were WRONG notwithstanding their best intentions.

It became clear to me this morning, then, that John 7:24 is not an exception to the rule, but a clear confirmation that the rule of Matthew 7:1 is purposeful, powerful, and the truth that we need to pay attention to.

So, I’m going to try and shut my trap when it comes to pointing out others’ sin. I hope that someone else can provide some clarity here if I am wrong.

I close with:

2 Timothy 2:25 Opponents must be gently instructed, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth…”

Does Jesus, telling us not to judge, rule out correction? Of course not. But, perhaps God made certain to tell us to instruct gently because our instruction may turn into self-righteous, negative judging at the drop of the hat.

And, of course, there is always the possibility that because we have planks in our own eyes, that our own gentle instruction might be nothing more than gentle garbage.

Your thoughts?

 
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The A.J. Show: Episode 2 – Charlotte’s Web and Highs and Lows

Check out our first podcast “Introductions”

In today’s episode, A.J. is under the weather and stays home from school. He talks about his latest reading selection (Charlotte’s Web), nightly highs and lows, and a review of the Angry Birds Space Fruit Gummies (just over 9 minutes).

Check out Rich Melheim’s “Faith 5″ here. His book is called “Holding Your Family Together” (click the link to go to Barnes and Noble).

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The A.J. Show – Episode 2: Charlotte’s Web and Highs and Lows

 
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On the media coverage of Jason Collins and his coming out

From a conversation with a mentor today, I’m thinking:

How much “prouder” of basketballer Jason Collins would we be if he saved a child from a raging fire?

I’m just not buying into someone announcing – at the twilight of his career – “I have a sexual attraction to men” as something to admire. Were Collins a freshly drafted rookie with something to risk… maybe.

But honestly ask yourself: is it more of a taboo in 2013 to proclaim to the world that you are homosexual or to proclaim your Christian beliefs regarding homosexuality?

Or how about this: Are his fellow basketballers (whether gay or straight) supposed to perfectly accept him being in the same showers with them after the game?

Before you answer, imagine the NBA being integrated by gender. Would it be a good idea for the men and women to shower together after the game? What if a woman felt uncomfortable with that? Would we call her a bigot?

 
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The A.J. Show – Episode 1: Introductions

Introducing a new podcast where I just record me and my 6-year old son chatting about life. In this first episode, we talk about Angry Birds, baseball, “some of the time” and “all of the time” foods, and more (about 13 minutes).

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Angel City: Night of Worship

Please join me as I participate in a wonderful night of worship in Bellflower, CA on April 20, 2013. Please bring a $5 donation for the facility. There are many acoustic artists who will be playing… music starts at 6:00p – I will be playing first. I’ll have CDs and t-shirts on hand. See you there!

Sponsored by the folks at Angel City Cafe.

 
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Our Kids Know More Than We Think

We adopted A.J. at 11 days old, and it was my wife’s and my goal to use “adoption language” easily and freely, without hesitation, so that A.J. never feels like it is a taboo subject.

Last Saturday, 6-year old A.J. and I had a nice Father-Son day where we shared a movie (Escape From Planet Earth, which was a lot of fun by the way), some popcorn, and some frozen yogurt. On the car ride to the theater, our discussion led to families and how they are different, and I had an opening to talk about adoption.

After we talked about how our little family was made, I told A.J. if he ever had any questions about adoption in general or his own adoption, he could ask anytime. I thought that would be it.

“Yeah, I saw that sign at the fire station,” he said.

Surprised, I took a moment to think about what he meant.

The day before we had taken photographs in front of a local fire station for a school project. Suddenly, it hit me. He must have seen a “safe haven” picture, but I was surprised that he would make the connection between this and adoption.

“Yes,” I told him. “The fire department is a great way for Mommys and Daddys who can’t take care of their own kids to help someone else become a Mommy and Daddy.”

There were no more words about adoption after that, but I went away realizing how deeply our kids think at such a young age and how important it is to respect that.

 
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Why does Santa hate Jewish kids?

I saw this tongue-in-cheek question posted by one of my Jewish Facebook friends, and it inspired these thoughts… “Why does Santa hate Jewish kids?”

I grew up a secular Jew, son of a Jewish Mom and agnostic Dad (who was an altar boy at an Anglican church as a kid). We celebrated Christmas every year, and I loved it. Santa was a welcome fixture in our household come December, and as kids, my brothers and I waited for him to give us presents under our Christmas tree.

So, since my brothers and I (all Jewish) freely celebrated Christmas as kids, one conclusion can be discerned from my friend’s tongue-in-cheek question.

Santa doesn’t hate Jewish kids. Jewish families hate Santa.

I became a Christian in 2006 – at the age of almost 37 years old… I had celebrated 38 Christmases at the time and, admittedly, associated Santa with “Christianity.”

It amazes me – now that I am a Christian – how far away this is from the truth.

The idea of a generous, rosy-cheeked, fat man coming in the middle of the night and giving presents is not at all Biblical. Granted, the story has “Christian” roots in that St. Nick was a real person who was really generous with gifts around Christmas time.

Still, in most households of the world that celebrate Christmas, I don’t think I am stretching when I say that Jesus is rarely mentioned.

As a result, I say to my friend and all other Jewish folks who are so “allergic” to Christmas time… get a tree… invite Santa in… and have some fun with it!

Just don’t make a Christmas ham.

 
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“Is The Christian Right’s Influence Over?” asks CNN

I just checked out the main page of CNN and saw this headline, following the re-election of Barack Obama – “Is the Christian Right’s influence over?”

I have not clicked the link, but I have provided it for you… I have not clicked the link because I am pretty sure that it ONLY refers to political influence. And, this has me immediately thinking.

Is the “Christian right” a failure and losing influence for their politics or for their Gospel?

How awful is it that a group labeled “Christian” is more known for its POLITICS than for its GOSPEL? How awful is it that a group labeled Christian is more known for “VOTE FOR ROMNEY” than for “REPENT AND BELIEVE?!”

I also have a number of Facebook Christian friends upset by the election results. My mother – a Jewish woman who is currently learning more about Christ and becoming more open to Him – had a friend who defriended her because of her jubilation at an Obama victory.

If we falter at an election result, how much more would we falter at a life-moment of personal tragedy?

If we believe God has the victory, then whether or not the Antichrist or anybody else wins an election does not change that.

So, if there’s a “Christian right” person reading this message…. maybe it is a good thing that you’re going to be spending some more time on GOSPEL than on POLITICS for a few years.

Matthew 28:18-20

Then Jesus came to them and said, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”

 
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Music is so “dumbed down” today

Published on November 2, 2012 by Rob Reed in Music, Rant, Weird

It is hard to write relevant music that can be enjoyed by all ages when mainstream music has been so dumbed down that it accepts and embraces absolute mediocrity.

Featured recently on Shazam was an up and coming artist named “Big Sean” (signed by Kanye West) who starts off his set with this song:

Just don’t tell me your love me.
You’re gonna make it too hard for me
I wish you was ugly, oh
It wouldn’t be too hard to leave
‘Cause baby I hate to love you
I can’t make up my mind
‘Cause right when I tell you its over
By the end of the night,
I’ll be right back in bed with you

Kids actually buy this stuff?

 
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Reason #1,023,472 of why we need Jesus

Said Jesus in John 15:18-21

“If the world hates you, you know that it hated Me before it hated you. If you were of the world, the world would love its own. Yet because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you. Remember the word that I said to you… If they persecuted Me, they will also persecute you… because they do not know Him who sent Me.”

When I became a Christian, I expected persecution. What I was not prepared for was that the majority of this persecution would come from those professing Christ.

I have more Christians today on the Internet attacking my identity in Christ than I ever had leading me to Christ before I was saved.

How sad is that?

So, my dear Christian brother or sister… remember the planks in your eye and, TODAY, tell someone out there of God’s greatness that despite those planks, God saved you!

 
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